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A strange and shocking story from China: a man in Nanjing pretended to be a woman online, tricked hundreds of men, and secretly filmed everything. Why did so many fall for it? In this episode, we explore the “Red Sister” scandal.
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We mentioned “来都来了” in this episode. What does it really mean? It’s not just “since you’re here”… It’s funny, useful, and surprisingly deep. In this episode, let’s break down this viral phrase in Chinese culture!
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大家好，欢迎回来 MaoMi Chinese。今天，我们来说一个最近在中国非常火的新闻。这个新闻有点奇怪，也有点吓人。
有一个男人，他38岁。他不是南京人，但是他住在南京。他平时喜欢穿女装，也就是女人的衣服，说话也像女生。他给自己取了一个名字，叫“红姐”或者“阿红”。他在网上加了很多男网友，说自己是一个热情的女人，不要钱，只想交朋友。 然后他请这些男人来他家里，对这些男人非常好，给他们吃水果，和他们聊天。后来，他们和他发生关系，也就是上床。
这些男人以为他是女人，但其实他也是男人。他们一开始不知道。但是，他们发现以后，还是继续和他发生关系。为什么？有的人不好意思离开，有的人说“来都来了”，有的人可能是第一次被人关心，所以就留了下来。
最严重的是，这个男的在房间里装了摄像头。他把这些视频都偷偷录下来，然后卖给别的人赚钱。他建了一个微信的群，只有付钱的人才能进去看这些视频。他已经拍了很多人，最开始网上说有一千多人，但后来警察说是两百多人。
还有人担心这个男的有性病，因为他不戴安全套。如果是真的，他就是在害别人。这是非常严重的事情。现在，这个男人已经被警察抓了。
很多人在网上讨论这个事情。有人觉得被骗的男人很可怜，也有人说他们太傻。也有很多人开始想，中国社会里，男人是不是太孤独了？是不是太需要别人的安慰？是不是缺少真正的感情？
你怎么看这个奇葩的新闻呢？欢迎给我们留言，和我们分享哦！
Hello everyone, and welcome to MaoMi Chinese.Today, we’re going to talk about a piece of news that’s been going viral in China recently. It’s a bit strange, and also a bit shocking.
There was a man, 38 years old. He’s not from Nanjing, but he lives there. He often dresses in women’s clothes and speaks like a woman. He gave himself a name — “Red Sister” or “A-Hong.” Online, he added lots of male friends and told them he was a warm, friendly woman. He said he didn’t want money, just to make friends. Then, he invited these men to his home, treated them very kindly — gave them fruit, chatted with them — and later, they had sex.
These men thought he was a woman. But actually, he is also a man. At first, they didn’t know. But even after they found out, many still chose to sleep with him. Why? Some felt too awkward to leave. Some said, “Well, I’m already here.” Some maybe felt cared for for the first time, so they stayed.
The most serious part is: this man had hidden cameras in the room. He secretly recorded all the videos, then sold them to others to make money. He created a WeChat group — only people who paid could get in and watch the videos. At first, the internet said there were over a thousand victims, but later the police said it was around 200 people.
Some people are also worried that this man has an STI, because he didn’t use protection. If that’s true, it means he put others in danger. That’s a very serious crime. Right now, this man has been arrested by the police.
Many people are talking about this online. Some think the men who were tricked are quite pitiful. Others say they were foolish. Many people are starting to reflect: are some men in China too lonely? Do they need comfort too much? Are they lacking real emotional connection?
What do you think about this bizarre story? Feel free to leave us a comment and share your thoughts!
他骗和利用别人。我跟他完全不同意。我觉得，大部分的“他的男人“ 是受害人。
他们生气 和困惑。他们有一个很奇怪和很难明白的经验。这个经验一辈子，要冲击他们。对他们真不公平。
是啊，这是一辈子的阴影了。