#146 Are you a relaxed or anxious learner? 你是松弛学习者还是焦虑学习者?

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喜欢MaoMi Chinese的很多朋友,都是中文学习者。每一个人都不一样。你觉得你是焦虑的学习者,还是松弛的学习者呢?哪一种学习者可以学中文学得更好?今天,我们一起来聊一聊吧!

最近,在中国的社交媒体上,很多人在说“松弛感”。松弛感,意思是很放松的感觉,不管有什么事,都不会紧张。有一个网友在他的社交媒体上说,他在旅行的时候,看到一家人因为迟到了一点点,没有赶上飞机。但是,这一家人一点儿都没有生气,也没有难过,而是很冷静地改了计划。这个网友说他很惊讶,他觉得这一家人有一种松弛感,因为如果是他的爸爸妈妈,一定会发脾气。发脾气,意思是很生气,而且让所有人都知道他很生气。他说,他的爸爸妈妈是很焦虑的人。焦虑的人,经常有很大的压力,也会让别人有很大的压力。

和焦虑的人不一样,松弛的人常常压力很小,因为不管发生什么,他们都觉得没关系,都可以很放松。中文里有一个成语,叫“顺其自然”,意思是,不管发生什么,都是自然的。不管我们多希望一个事情发生,或者不发生,事情都不会改变。所以,我们不用有压力,也不用难过,顺其自然就好。现在,很多人说松弛也是一种能力,因为松弛的人可以冷静地面对很多问题。

你觉得你是焦虑的人,还是松弛的人呢?你的父母是焦虑的人,还是松弛的人呢?焦虑的父母,常常也会有焦虑的孩子。松弛的父母,常常也会有松弛的孩子。因为在中国,竞争很大,很多中国的父母都比较焦虑,所以很多孩子也比较焦虑。他们常常非常努力,因为他们想要最好的结果。如果结果不太好,他们也会很难过。

那么,学语言,我们应该焦虑,还是应该松弛呢?我觉得,我们学语言的时候,可以松弛一点。学语言,是一个很长很长的旅行。如果我们常常觉得焦虑,我们会觉得自己还不够好,有一天,我们也会觉得,学语言一点儿也不好玩。只有我们觉得一个事情好玩,我们才会想要长期地做这个事情。松弛的人,也不害怕犯错,因为他们知道,犯错是自然的,我们可以顺其自然。只要我们多说,我们自然也会说得越来越好。

你是松弛的学习者吗?你是焦虑的学习者吗?欢迎你和我们分享你的故事!

Hello, everyone! Welcome back to MaoMi Chinese!

Many friends who enjoy MaoMi Chinese are Chinese learners. Each person is unique. Do you consider yourself an anxious learner or a relaxed learner? Which type of learner can master Chinese better? Today, let's discuss it together!

Recently, on Chinese social media, many people are talking about "松弛感" (a sense of relaxation). 松弛感 means a very relaxed feeling, where nothing makes you nervous. One netizen shared on his social media that when he was traveling, he saw a family who missed their flight by a little bit because they were running late. However, this family wasn't angry or upset at all; instead, they calmly adjusted their plans. The netizen was surprised and felt that this family had a sense of 松弛感 because if it were his parents, they would definitely be angry. Being angry means being very upset and letting everyone know that you are upset. He mentioned that his parents are very anxious people. Anxious people often experience a lot of stress, and they can also cause stress for others.

Unlike anxious individuals, relaxed people often have minimal stress because, no matter what happens, they feel it's okay and can stay relaxed. In Chinese, there is an idiom called "顺其自然," which means to go with the flow, accepting things as they are. No matter how much we hope for or against something, things won't change. So, we don't need to stress, and it's okay to go with the flow. Nowadays, many people say that being relaxed is also a skill because relaxed individuals can calmly face many problems.

Do you consider yourself an anxious person or a relaxed person? Are your parents anxious or relaxed? Anxious parents often have anxious children, while relaxed parents often have relaxed chidren. In China, where competition is fierce, many Chinese parents are relatively anxious, so many children are also anxious. They often work very hard because they want the best results. If the results are not so good, they also feel sad.

So, when learning a language, should we be anxious or relaxed? I think when learning a language, we can be a bit more relaxed. Learning a language is a very long journey. If we often feel anxious, we may feel that we are not good enough, and one day, we may feel that learning a language is not fun at all. Only when we find something fun, will we want to do it for a long time. Relaxed people are also not afraid of making mistakes because they know that making mistakes is natural, and we can go with the flow. As long as we speak more, we will naturally get better.

Are you a relaxed learner? Are you an anxious learner? Feel free to share your story with us!

6 thoughts on “#146 Are you a relaxed or anxious learner? 你是松弛学习者还是焦虑学习者?”

  1. 我以前都是很焦虑的学习者,一直怕犯错,但是现在我知道该顺其自然。现在我是松弛的学习者,不再怕犯错误

  2. 当我年轻的时候,我是一个松弛学习的人,但随着年龄的增长,我变得更加焦虑,尤其是在大学里。
    现在,当我学习普通话时,我喜欢按照自己的节奏学习,并且学习是为了乐趣。所以我想我可以说我是一个松弛的学习者。

  3. 这个很重要的主题。
    你们知道年纪越大,压力会越大,所以年纪越大的时候你不在乎你是谁,有时候你不能了解自己因为你没时间看看自己的情况。我还是年轻的人但是我总是感觉压力很大,爸妈他们都是焦虑和严格的人,所以他们给我压力很大,不过他们做这个为了我,为了更好的未来。有时候我觉得他们的方法很好,而且大多数的时候我觉得如果他们放松一下一切会更好。
    你说的那个成语“顺其自然”我觉得是非常好的成语,因为我是一个穆斯林所以我们相信安拉(上帝),我们相信一切都发生了为了原因,有时候之后我们会知道为什么发生了这个事情,有时候我们并不知道,只安拉知道。

    最后我相信每个人应该学习怎们当一个松弛的人,生活会更好玩更简单。

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